Real or Fake?

Here, I want to share my most recent post on Coil, about friendships: Real or Fake?

I have not been here much on my main site because I have been posting daily on Coil – a web-monetized platform. I have met a great group of people blogging there – where we interact on Telegram, encouraging each other and motivating each other to get our content out.

In life, it is not about how many people you know or have in your life – it’s always a POSITIVE to surround yourself around the people who UPLIFT you and ENCOURAGE you to push forward to get where you want to be!!

Sandra Scala

It has been an amazing journey thus far, and I will continue posting regularly on Coil. If you would like to come and visit, please do! Click on this link to get connected to my blog – I hope to see you there!

Thank you for your continued support!

Let’s untangle our mind, and set it free…

Sandra Scala

New Friendships…

“A new friend who makes you feel comfortable and allows you to be YOU – no stress, no drama, and pure laughter – one who makes you feel at ease and no pressure – is one you want to surround yourself with, and keep!”
– Sandra Scala

This is my friend, Yiota, from Cyprus! We enjoyed getting to know each other over the past few months, and today, she met us at the airport and took us out to a Seafood Platter lunch and beverage by the Mediterranean Sea.

Gorgeous day spent and a beautiful way to start another journey! Thank you, Yiota!! Love you! ❤️

Keep the people close to you – the ones who believe in you and your future dreams! The ones who give off positive energy!!


Let’s untangle our mind, and set it free…

Sandra Scala

A True Friend

A friend is not someone who laughs at a decision you’ve made.
A friend is not someone who only calls when they want something.
A friend is not someone who will judge you.
And a friend is definitely not someone who will do things behind your back, creating unnecessary issues, causing hurtful outcomes.

A true friend, however, is someone who wants to, and chooses to, stick by you no matter what happens.
A true friend, is someone who realizes that no one is perfect, and will comfort you through the difficult times.
A true friend will understand when enough is enough, and when the right time is to either offer their support, or keep their distance.

A true friend, will confront you when they have issues.
They will not hide, nor will they be secretive or vindictive.
They will not turn a situation around in order to make themselves feel better.
They will not put you down in order to achieve an inner feeling of power.
That inner feeling they thrive on is the kind that initiates intimidating actions.

Friends don’t do that to each other; rather, they show honesty and respect.
They accept changes in and around their lives, even if that means losing a friendship.
By accepting change, it creates peace and happiness.

Let’s untangle our mind, and set it free…

Sandra Scala