This is my perception with regards to how women may feel when dealing with mental challenges, self-confidence, and love.
I by no means am speaking for every woman – again – these are just my thoughts and opinion. This can also apply to men, but here, I am speaking on behalf of women who may be too scared to share their thoughts, and am hoping that this article brings them a sense of peace. I am also hoping for the men that read this – they will understand this perception of a woman…
When you are a woman who is coping with mental challenges, you get into a state of mind where you don’t want to associate with other people. You don’t want to be a burden to others. And maybe some just simply don’t know how.
When you are a woman dealing with self-confidence, you worry about the way you look, the way you speak, the way you walk, etc. etc., all in hopes to be accepted by others. You start to avoid crowds and you get wrapped up in your own emotions.
When you are a woman, who has been in and out of love, has been hurt, cheated on, lied to, abused – you lose hope. You lose trust – in yourself and in others.
You find yourself putting up that wall…And as a woman, you become silent.
BUT, this can all be avoided. How, you ask?By showing simple acts of kindness.By showing gratitude, appreciation.By showing empathy.By showing support.By being humble.By loving.By Accepting.
This quote here by Audrey Hepburn:
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.
When you really look deep into a woman’s eyes, you will see everything…
You will see love, you will see pain.You will see hurt, you will see anger.
But the thing is, it all leads to the heart, to LOVE…Anything and everything any woman has experienced, is always felt within the heart.
If a woman is treated with respect, kindness, appreciation, and love, that doorway to her heart will open. The hurt, and the pain that made that door close, it can, and will open. In time.
It needs a chance to be opened. The right person who understands, who listens, who offers support – that is when the door opens. And by looking in the eyes of a woman, deep within, her soul can be searched. And found, once again.
Every woman is beautiful in her own, unique way.Each woman has a different way of expressing her thoughts, and emotions. All she needs is a chance. Whether it’s a chance at love, friendships, a career – just anything in life.
I think that people tend to forget that sometimes, just sometimes, it’s not all about themselves. It’s not all about what’s on the outside.
If we, as a society, open our hearts and show kindness and empathy, then we can be at a spot where we are happy. There can be peace if people just took the time to understand one another and appreciate what is right in front of them.
To all you beautiful women out there, never lose hope.And to all the men, that goes for you too… ❤️
“Let’s untangle our mind and set it free…”