If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.
– Tony Robbins
How many times do we tell ourselves that “Nah, I can’t do it, there’s no way I will get that job” or “There’s no way they would want to go out with me” or “There’s no way I am ever going to get approved for a mortgage”?!
How many times do we put ourselves down thinking we are not good enough? Seriously? I know I’ve done it a few times, and even now, I see it with my kids where they question their abilities and strengths.
Here’s the thing – I’ve told my kids, and I do my best to encourage them – “Don’t think you can’t do something. You don’t know where the path will take you unless you try – you HAVE to try!! Don’t let other people bring you down into thinking that you can’t achieve the goals you want to achieve!”
It’s time to STEP out of your comfort zone. It’s time to START believing in yourself. It’s time to STOP making excuses.
– Sandra Scala
Why is it that we live in doubt? Why do we live in fear? Sure, these are normal feelings and emotions, but so much so that it steers us away from pursuing something bigger? Something perhaps better? And then we miss our chance?
So much so that for some of us, we allow our anxiety and/or depression to take over, tangling our minds into thinking that we aren’t good enough or we don’t have enough money or whatever the case may be?!
Here’s the thing – money isn’t everything.
Who ever said that life would be easy?Who ever said that life would be perfect?
In my books – there is no such thing.
Trying to be the best isn’t everything. Trying to have everything, isn’t everything. It’s about doing the best you can with what you’ve got!
The point is – change cannot happen unless we make it happen. Change to better ourselves so that we can be happy cannot happen unless we take the time to try and figure it out, or talk to the people it involves, whether it’s a family member or a friend. (I will get into this part in the subscriber content section).
I say – you want a better job? Then talk to the higher person, and do what you can to get what you want! You aren’t getting anywhere? Then make changes that will better you and your family, even if that means leaving. It’s not just going to happen magically, or overnight for that matter, and you have to be persistent. You almost have to sell yourself. Forget the old you – you are worth it and you can make the changes you need to make in order to BE HAPPY!!
Do you know what I mean? Does this all make sense?
Seriously – you want to buy a house? Then look around. Look at your options. It doesn’t mean it has to be big and fancy. It has to be comfortable and within your means. A roof over your head is what counts! You never know what could happen so that you can buy that dream house of yours – but in the meantime, be happy that you have that roof over your head, and you are able to provide for yourself and/or family!
And as for a relationship. Well, so what if that person doesn’t like you? There are SO many people in this world, and there is someone who will understand you – every part of you! Don’t keep chasing the same kind of person that you were once with. That part of your life is in your past. You have today to live, and you just never know who you can meet or how you will meet them! Stay positive and believe in yourself!
If you fall, pick yourself right back up, and keep pushing forward! You’ve got this!! ❤️
“Let’s untangle our mind, and set it free…”